1 Thessalonians 5:18: In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
1 Peter 5:5: Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. 6 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: 7 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
It is only pride that makes us believe that we deserve something better than we have and it is only pride that makes us believe that we do not deserve to be in Hell. What believers go through is never as bad as Hell.
1 Corinthians 10:10: Neither murmur ye, as some of them also murmured, and were destroyed of the destroyer.
Numbers 14:29: Your carcases shall fall in this wilderness; and all that were numbered of you, according to your whole number, from twenty years old and upward, which have murmured against me,
Lamentations 3:37: Who is he that saith, and it cometh to pass, when the Lord commandeth it not? 38 Out of the mouth of the most High proceedeth not evil and good? 39 Wherefore doth a living man complain, a man for the punishment of his sins? 40 Let us search and try our ways, and turn again to the LORD.
Is there anything in your life that God did not put there or permit? Does He love you? Does He know what is good for you better than you do?
1 John 3:20: For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.
Psalms 94:11: The LORD knoweth the thoughts of man, that they are vanity.
Psalms 84:11: For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.